Episode 15 - 7 Signs It's Time to Follow Your Purpose
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hi everyone, and welcome back to another episode of the Starlit Success Podcast. I am your host, as always, Jessica Gaines, today we're gonna talk about something that is very near and dear to my heart.
So I wanna ask you. Do you feel, or have you felt that your life just kind of feels maybe a little off? Maybe you're not unhappy, maybe you're not like sad or anything, but maybe it just feels like something is missing? Right. Like I talked about this in episode one quite a bit, where I just didn't really understand this feeling of like, okay, I've had three jobs in a matter of a few years and it's just not filling me up.
Like something just felt missing and I couldn't really put my finger on it. One of the jobs I felt like it was the company itself. The second job, I felt like it was the industry. And then this [00:01:00] third job I started to feel like I keep feeling this way.
Maybe it's not the job itself. Maybe I need to just pay attention to this feeling and explore this a little bit more.
I talked a lot about like what I went through and how I felt, but I wanted to kind of talk directly to you if you're feeling like this, and
I wanted to expand a little bit and touch on that feeling and the different signs that you can pay attention to to realize that your life is about to change.
And the biggest feeling for me was just feeling that. That unfulfillment or feeling like stagnant? I know a lot of people like to use the word stuck. I don't like using the word stuck because I don't, I don't feel like that's a real thing. Like I don't think you're ever stuck. You always have an option to move, but you can feel like, like you're just off, like something's missing and you can't really put your finger on it.
So I just wanna dive in a little bit further, a little bit deeper on how you can start to pay attention more to that feeling and all of the different signs that I feel like [00:02:00] your soul or your higher self is actually calling you to your higher purpose.
And honestly, you're probably already on the right path.
And Maybe that's one of the reasons that you clicked on this episode because you feel like I want my life to change because maybe I'm not feeling like my life is exactly what I pictured it to be.
And I understand like this can feel really isolating. Like for me personally, when I was going through it, I obviously talked to the people closest to me. I talked to my mom, I talked to my husband and, you know, they were a huge support system for me.
They still really are. And then I kind of started to venture out a little bit more and like express this to my closest friends. And honestly, I didn't realize how isolating it could feel and how lonely it could feel because not everyone feels this way. You know?
I am sure a lot of people feel like this at some point in their life, but to find someone else that's feeling this exact feeling at the same time you are is kind of hard. So like finding that support system to help [00:03:00] guide you through it and just be there for each other can be a challenge, which is a big reason why I created this podcast because I personally didn't really know of many people going through the journey that I was going through, and I felt like it was really important to get this message out there, show you that you're not alone, and show you that there is hope and there is big things ahead for you.
So if you're feeling like this, you are on the right path. You're already doing the right things, you're exploring it, you're paying attention, you're listening, and because of that, your life is going to change.
And I know I have this titled Seven Signs however, there isn't like one official list but this is a lived experience for me. This is something that I've gone through for the last several years. not only have I lived it, and I've been through it to know exactly the signs that I felt, but like, I've done a lot of research on this too.
Like, I was constantly looking for like, what is my higher purpose? what is this all [00:04:00] meant for? Or how do I discover my purpose and all of that. So I've seen lists that say, you know, nine signs, five signs. really, it's, it's whatever speaks to you and whatever signs that you're feeling is true for you.
But these seven signs are what I have personally experienced, what I have felt to be true. So I thought I would share them because if, if any of them resonate with you, chances are you're very much on a similar path that I was, and I can kind of help guide you through it.
I think the biggest mistake people make when they have this feeling of unfulfillment or stagnant or Maybe just bored with life. most people, what they end up doing is they look for something externally to kind of fix that.
Usually it's something like new, like they want something new. And I personally have done this myself again, which is, uh, my lived experience, been there, done that. But it's like you feel like, okay, maybe it's, um, maybe it's, a new house, you know, like that's a big change.
That's something new. That's something [00:05:00] exciting. Maybe it's getting a new job. Like for me, when I was feeling unfulfilled and not completely happy, got a new job, maybe that would change it.
Another thing I did was, okay, I'm not really feeling. Completely aligned. I'm gonna go back to school for something. You've heard my story. I've quit a million things. And I went back to school a ton of times thinking that that would kind of fill that void and it never did.
When you're always looking for something new then whatever that new thing is. I don't care if it's a house, if it's a car, if it's a puppy, or even if it's a vacation
all of that turns old that excitement wears off. So the new job or the new promotion after six months to a year, there's no, there's nothing to look forward to anymore. When you're done with the vacation and you come home, vacation's over, it's like you're, you're right back to where you were feeling initially.
And it might not be right away, like that might fill the void for a little bit, or even, [00:06:00] even a couple years. Like for me, everything that I've tried, maybe it, helped me for a, a period of time. So, you know, you buy a new house, you buy a new car, you get a new puppy, whatever it is. after a couple years, it's like, okay, now what?
Like, you're right back to that same feeling and you keep looking for something else to hopefully change it or hopefully fix it.
And having done that myself, I'm telling you it doesn't, it doesn't change anything. The way I kind of look at it is like let's say you're, you have a broken leg or a broken arm and you're in pain, you start to take pain medications. But you don't ever address the actual root of the issue, the broken bone, right?
So you're just kind of numbing it and. As soon as you stop those meds, that pain comes back. So if you look at it like all the external distractions as the medication, once those are done, that underlying pain is still there. And I don't wanna say that it's, it's painful. maybe it's painful for you, but for me it was just like this feeling [00:07:00] of meh.
I was talking to someone the other day and they had just asked me how my day was and it was like, hmm. Meh. Like it wasn't great. Like it wasn't like a beautiful sunny day and I didn't have all these amazing things happen to me that day. But it also wasn't like a freezing cold day or like snowing or raining.
But it was kind of wet. But it was like nice enough to take my dog for a walk, and that's kind of how I would describe this feeling. It's like you're not super excited about your life, but it's also like your life doesn't suck.
It's just like you're on this plateau and it's like that, that autopilot feeling like you're just going through the motions and there's nothing really exciting going on, and you wanna be more excited in your life. You wanna feel more of that like passion and joy every day, rather than just like, oh, it's another day and just looking forward to Friday, or looking forward to a vacation.
If you're not really living in your purpose or you're not really living in alignment with who you really [00:08:00] truly are and what you're really meant to do, I feel like that's what ends up happening. Like, your life just kind of feels like me.
But I'm telling you, if you're feeling like this. You're not living in alignment with your soul's purpose. Nothing externally is ever going to fix that. You have to really dive in and do some deep inner work to figure out what that is for you. What does that mean for you?
And if you continue to just keep pursuing those external things and not really pay attention to these signs, then I'm gonna tell you your life is just gonna keep feeling like this. You're just gonna keep feeling like you're on autopilot, like you're just getting through the days and no big changes are gonna happen.
You're gonna always kind of be looking for that escape, you know? And that's what I don't want for you. I don't want you to feel like you're just surviving. You're not meant to just survive. You're meant to thrive. You're meant to just like be this [00:09:00] creator of your life. And I myself never really understood that. I always felt like it. It just had to get the next thing or go on the next vacation, or buy the bigger house or get the better job. I never paid attention to that. It was something that was within me, if I just started to pay attention, I could really transform the way my life looked.
I don't wanna say that I really felt conflicted. I just felt a little lost. I didn't really understand what my next step was.
Like I knew what I was feeling, but I did not know what to do about it.
But I know for sure that. If you don't pay attention, and you continue to numb or distract yourself or ignore these feelings, then years are gonna go by and you're gonna regret not making those big changes.
Like if I would've really paid attention. So the first time I was feeling this way, which was when I was probably like 25, which I'm 43 now. That was almost 20 years ago. Like if I would've been so [00:10:00] much more self-aware at 25, I just look back and I'm like, man, what would I have been capable of?
If I really would've tuned in and really did some self-discovery, then like where would I be now? I don't care where you are in your life, if you're feeling this way, this is your time. Like you are on the right timeline.
But it's just a matter of you tapping in and realizing that like this is your calling and it's time to make a change. And if you ignore that, your are just gonna go by and I'm gonna tell you, you're gonna be right back to where you were. Because I've been here so many times and I finally realized like, okay, maybe I should start paying attention and doing something about it.
And if you're a mom like me, or if you're a parent, you know how fast time goes. it's like the days are slow, but the years go by fast. Like when you look at your kids, you realize like, holy crap.
Like maybe they were a baby and now they're five. Me, I have an almost 18-year-old, like that's crazy [00:11:00] to me. I had him when I was 25 and I'm 43 now. Like, where did the time go? Oh, so just look at it from that point of view. and I realize now that when I was 25 first, having that feeling, you heard my story about me quitting my job when my husband or I, at the time he was, my boyfriend, wasn't working. I had a baby at home. Like that's how unhappy I was. And then the feeling came back more than once.
And you've heard my story about continuing to try to pursue new things. Looking externally for something and not looking inward and realizing that I had some of my own self-discovery to do.
And I love this metaphor. It's like God will throw a pebble, to kind of get your attention. So you know, maybe that was my pebble at 25. Maybe you had a pebble. You know, it's like this little uncomfortable thing that is like, Hey, look over here, pay attention, and if you ignore it or you distracted, or whatever, then here comes a rock.
Now he is throwing a [00:12:00] rock a little bit louder, a little bit bigger, just to get your attention right. And then if you don't pay attention to that, then here comes a boulder right now, it's like you can't ignore it. Or maybe it's smacks you upside the head. Maybe it is so painful now that you have no choice but to do something about it.
And I'm telling you like, don't, don't wait until it gets that far. Like start paying attention as early as you can because the earlier you pay attention, the more massive change you can actually make in your life.
Look at it like if you are feeling uncomfortable to me, that's a good sign. that is the universe's way of telling you to move or God's way of telling you to move. You're never gonna feel comfortable in a position that is not meant for you. So whatever it is in your life, if you're not comfortable there, there's a reason. Because it's not meant for you, it's time to move.
So look at it this way, what if that feeling of emptiness, of [00:13:00] unfulfillment, of boredom, what if that's actually your sign that you are being called to something so much bigger?
It is this sign that you were meant for so much more than where you are in your life. Because if you weren't, why would you feel this way? Right. I've asked people, I've asked all my closest friends, you know, we were at dinner one night and I'm like, you guys don't feel like this. You guys don't feel like there's just gotta be more than just like working a nine to five every day this just normal routine of living the same day over and over again.
You don't feel like there's gotta be just something out there and they're like, no. And I'm like, Hmm, okay. Just me, I guess. Hmm.
But then I thought about it like everybody is on a different journey. Everyone has a different path, everyone has a different timeline and their journey is just different than mine so I just kind of reframed it rather than like, oh, poor pitiful me.
Why is it only me feeling this way? [00:14:00] I started looking at it like, wow, lucky me. I'm so thankful for this feeling because this is showing me something.
And I feel like when you're being pulled towards your purpose, you know, life kind of leaves clues. When I started to have more self-awareness around this feeling, I started just reflecting, you know? And I looked back and was like, when have I felt like this before? What did that feeling look like?
Then? Where was I at in my life then? And then I started noticing patterns. I noticed patterns of what I was doing. So I was usually in a line of work that wasn't completely fulfilling. I was feeling a similar feeling, so similar situation, similar feeling. I'm seeing a pattern now.
If this is your first time feeling this way, that's amazing that you're already on the ball and you're already listening to episodes like this, but if this is your second, your third, your fourth, whatever time feeling like this then it's really time to pay attention.
Consider yourself lucky.
Look at it as like [00:15:00] this is a green light to start getting curious and start digging deeper and really start going after whatever this purpose is for you.
All right, I'm gonna stop rambling. so today we're gonna go through seven signs that this might already be happening for you.
Sign number one, and I've touched on this many times, but it's just that feeling of unfulfillment.
It's that feeling of Groundhogs Day. It's like you're doing the same thing over and over and you're just kinda like, what is this all for? Like what am I doing this for?
And it's weird because it's like, you have been doing this for so long why is it now a problem for me?
But again, look at it like this is your sign to get out of your comfort zone. You've been comfortable way too long. Now it's time to get a little uncomfortable to see what's next to, to stretch, to grow.
Sign number two, you have like this deeper desire for meaning. So for me, I noticed that I would start to, Like stare at the sky. my husband and I, his name's Eddie by the way. I keep calling him my husband and he has a name.[00:16:00]
So Eddie and I, we have a deck off our bedroom and in the summer months or when it's, whenever it's warm, which is not often here in Wisconsin, we like to sit out there and we, we have deep talks and we stargaze and we meditate. I think a lot of the times he's actually sleeping, even though we're supposed to be meditating.
But I'll let that slide. But I notice like I'll just stare up at the sky. Even, even walking my dog or even when I'm riding in a car.
I would look at these stars and I would look at the moon and I would just realize like we are just like these little specks in the universe on this planet just floating in space.
What is this all for? Like what is the meaning of all this? I know some of you're gonna be like, what are you talking about? The world is just so much bigger, you know? We're just so stuck in our lives and focused on what's in front of us all the time.
And we don't realize like how ex. Expansive, this universe is, and it's like, why am I here? Why am I this little tiny human? What am I here for? What am I [00:17:00] supposed to do? And I would always question myself, especially going through this feeling, it's just like, there's gotta be a reason for my life, right?
Like, what was I put on earth to do?
And for some people, what they're doing is fine. Like it's enough for them. I'm not saying that you have to want more, that you have to desire, like this bigger meaning. I'm just saying like, if you're feeling like this, then it's very likely you're being called for a reason.
At the end of the day, everyone wants to feel like their life is meaningful. And for some people it could just be being a mother, for some people, it could be achieving their dream career.
For me, I have a lot to be grateful for, but for some reason I can't explain it. I just have this desire for more meaning.
I wanna make more of an impact on the world. I want to make a positive difference in other people's lives. maybe that for you looks a little bit different, but you're not ungrateful for wanting more. There's nothing wrong with that, especially because you can't control it.
Like, I couldn't control this feeling. I didn't ask for it. it's [00:18:00] bestowed upon me,
Being there for my kids, being there for my husband, for my friends, my family. That is all super fulfilling. it just wasn't enough and there's nothing wrong with that. I wanted to help as many people as possible.
And help others see the potential in them and like look at what she did like maybe I could do that.
Okay, number three. You feel like you're being called
for me it wasn't just like feeling unfulfilled, it's like this inner voice or like this inner nudge that there's just something bigger for you. It was just like this, spiritual pull
It's so hard to explain if you haven't gone through it before. I'm hoping you have, so you understand what I'm trying to say here, but it's like this really, really strong desire to feel like you're living up to your highest potential.
Like where you are. You're not doing as much as you really could be doing.
Not only do you feel like you're not living up to your, your highest potential, you feel like there's like [00:19:00] this sense of urgency to do it now. you don't have any more time to waste
like you, you have to take action now.
Or maybe you have been kind of dabbling in it, but now you feel like you have to start taking it seriously. there is no more waiting. You have to pursue it now.
It's like this feeling of just like all or nothing.
Which leads me to sign number four you just start to get really focused on your growth and you get really curious, like you're just ready to explore. You know, When I realized I'm being called to something more. I don't know what it means, but I know I have to do something now. I just got super curious about it.
I started googling things like, how to live my dream life or how to find my purpose
I started listening to all kinds of podcasts about like mindset. I just started like feeding my mind as much information as I could about what this might mean for me. Instead of just looking for something else to make me feel better. I just really started to go on this internal journey of [00:20:00] self-discovery
and then that kind of like, that kind of snowballs, when you start feeding yourself all this information, it's like you just keep learning and it just kind of spiderwebs into more. Then I learned about NLP and hypnosis and, energy work,
and then I got certified in a bunch of things to help me really solidify what it is that I was interested in doing.
Even my social media, algorithms started to change I started to follow like a lot of coaches, a lot of spiritual mentors, I started to feel like what they were talking about was like speaking directly to me and just like following the latest celebrities and stuff, really wasn't doing it for me anymore.
As you start to consume all of this new information, the gap from like where you are and then where you wanna be, starts to become a little bit more obvious and it starts to feel a little bit more real. Like you start to feel like I could really make some shifts in my life
and living in my purpose or living in alignment with what I really wanna do is really possible.
And then you have like this heightened awareness, you start to [00:21:00] be so much more connected with yourself and you start to kind of pay attention to what else is out there. the more information you're taking in and the more guidance that you're receiving and the more tuned in I guess I would call it,
You start to feel like you've been asleep all these years. I was like, holy crap. Like I didn't even pay attention to all this. I didn't even realize what I'm capable of.
And then you, you start to get a lot more clear on what your strengths are, what you're good at, what your values are, what you want your goals to be, what you want to achieve. I didn't really know a lot of that before.
And when you see all these other people like really living their passion or living in their truth, you look at them like, wow, it is possible. Like you have this validation that these other people are doing it if it's possible for them. It's possible for me.
And in addition to like noticing how successful people think and operate and move, it also helps you realize how many people are stuck in this, like, lack [00:22:00] mindset. how many people don't think that their dream life is possible, or they just feel like successful people are just a different breed.
I know I felt like that, I felt like successful people were like on the other side of this wall, they were just separate from me. But when you start to wake up and realize what you're truly capable of, you realize like they're really no different from you.
Eddie and I used to do a lot of wishing, a lot of, I wish we could do this, or one day, I hope, or, must be nice to have this. And it's like now we have a completely different mindset and we're like, no, this totally could be us. We could be living our dream lives. It's all up to you and what you wanna do with it.
You're not this victim to reality you are creating every day. just having this heightened sense of awareness makes you realize, that you can change your life. I heard this term and I love it. It's like, when is the best time to plant a tree? Well, 20 years [00:23:00] ago, 'cause trees take forever to grow, but when is the next best time to plant a tree?
And it's now. So just having that heightened awareness makes you realize like, just start something now. Okay. So we've got feeling dissatisfied, desire for meaning. Feeling called, being growth driven, having a heightened awareness of what's truly possible for you. And number six is you notice a shift in your priorities. So the way I would explain this is like, your old pastimes maybe aren't as exciting or aren't as fulfilling anymore.
maybe binging tv, going out, maybe drinking, maybe shopping.
You notice all of those things aren't moving you closer to your purpose. They're really just a distraction from the lack of it. therefore, they're not as interesting to you anymore because you're so focused on achieving your goals, your purpose, your dream life, that you wanna spend as much of your time as possible dedicated towards that.
Like right now I [00:24:00] have a one hour slot available in the morning, which I intentionally planned out. I could have spent that time doing something else, but I made this a priority to record because it's that important to me.
maybe you even notice, like your conversations start to change. So maybe you're not as interested in talking about the latest celebrity gossip. You know? I know for me, like my friends would be like, oh, did you see the new episode or the new TV series? And I'd be like, no, but did you know there's gonna be a full moon this week?
Or there's this lunar eclipse? Or like, I would start talking astrology and they'd be like, okay. And some people would be interested and others would glaze over.
And the last one is, you just start to daydream, right? You start to get a little bit more excited. Like after you've kind of gone through all these things, or maybe some of them, you start imagining what your life would look like if you were doing something more aligned, you know, more fulfilling, more you.
It's like, what if I did start writing that book? Or what if I did open that flower shop? Or what if I did start my [00:25:00] own little side hustle? You start to kind of have this like dream in your head of like, Hmm, what could I do?
Maybe you're a little nervous about it, but like deep down that sense of purpose is like really lighting you up.
I can tell you, if you start to daydream and you start to think about what your life could really look like if you start to become obsessed about it. for me, I could not stop thinking about this. Like I couldn't stop thinking about what I could truly do.
every morning it was on my mind, maybe it wasn't necessarily starting a podcast, but it was about like how I could help change others' lives. when I would go to bed at night, it would be on my mind. It was like literally every day when I woke up and I went to bed, it was always on my mind and I couldn't turn it off.
If that's you, if like, if you can't turn this thing off, I'm telling you, it wants you just as bad as you want it, so go after it.
Okay, so we've got feeling dissatisfied, feeling unfulfilled. Number two is desire for meaning. Number three is feeling called. Number four is getting [00:26:00] curious, starting to be growth driven.
Number five is having that heightened awareness of what you're truly capable of. Number six is that shift in priorities. And then number seven is starting a daydream. So when you start listening and start paying attention to these signs, you stop that autopilot living and you start living intentionally. You take the wheel of your life and you realize that you are in control and you can take it wherever you wanna go.
And when you have this purpose, it keeps you like grounded and hopeful. And you start to look at obstacles or challenges or difficulties in your life as like signs, like they're redirecting you and they're not necessarily problems anymore, but it's like, how is this here to help me?
How can I grow from this?
And you start to align with something beyond yourself.
Maybe you start helping others. Maybe you're part of solving problems. Maybe you start creating beauty or art.
Or maybe, maybe you're like me, maybe you're out here to, to elevate the collective consciousness and help people just kind of [00:27:00] wake up from that deep slumber.
then when you pay attention, you stop trying to escape from the life that you have, and you spend your time building the life that you really want.
And it starts to be more fun, like life starts to become more fun. It's like when I started all this, I went through the whole curiosity, desire for meaning phase. And then when I started putting things in action now, like my days are so exciting ' cause it's like I'm planning episodes, I'm thinking of ideas, I'm recording, I'm publishing, I'm getting feedback.
it doesn't feel like that endless routine anymore. Just like your days are blurred together. It's like, Ooh, what can I create today? There's like that little spark then you start to attract, different opportunities, different people into your life because that energy that you're putting out, it has no choice but to draw those similar people experiences to you.
Because like I said, whatever you want wants you to, and when you start actually putting it into action, then all of that starts to [00:28:00] align right? When you start following your purpose, then everything starts to kind of fall into place. So it might be kind of messy at first, like things might look like, shit like me might be unfulfilled and just like blah.
once you start realizing what you're actually meant to do or what you're here for, things just start to make sense.
And when you have that clarity and when you have that purpose.
You fostered that belief that you really do have the power to change your life.
There's a quote from the book, the Alchemist, which is one of my favorite books. If you haven't read it, I highly recommend. And it says, it's the possibility of having a dream come true. That makes life interesting.
And I love that I feel like that's why life can get so boring if you don't have this poss it's,. It's almost like buying a lottery ticket in a sense. It's like you buy the ticket. And let's say you, you pick numbers and it's like the excitement of waiting for those numbers to be called is part of the fun.
It's like they might be called, if they're not, that's okay. [00:29:00] You can try again. But it's just like having that excitement, like, this might happen someday. It might, you just never know. as long as you're pursuing what your true dreams are, you're building that excitement into every day.
And when you have that, that purpose, when you found your purpose, it's like that is that deeper sense of why behind your goals.
You're gonna stay committed through challenges because you know why you're doing it. You're not gonna give up.
And you'll probably stop procrastinating because it's like fueling you, right? Like once I discover like this is what I was meant to do, there is no waiting. Like I can't wait to do it. 'cause it's fun. I love it
yeah, it's helpful for me and I feel good doing it, but it's like knowing that I could help change someone else's life is like so fulfilling to me.
Okay, so we've got through all the seven signs. If you're feeling any of these signs, number one, you have to just pay attention, right? You have to pay attention. That's the only way your life is going to change. I'm telling you.
This feeling is not random. This is a sign from the [00:30:00] universe, from God, from your higher power to do something about it.
It's not just like a temporary frustration with something. It's like this ongoing feeling that doesn't go away.
So which of these signs have you been experiencing? And just write them down and notice 'em.
And once you've done that, you need to get curious.
Instead of running away from whatever it is that doesn't feel comfortable, look at it as like a guide. You know, it's kind of like these little breadcrumbs that are being left for you. Like, okay, let's start following them. Where does it lead? What does this mean?
What is it trying to tell you? Is there a pattern? Are you noticing a pattern in the feelings and the experiences that you're going through? And the struggles and the lessons? what is it trying to tell you?
And, and then realize where could I make a change? Where could you make a change?
And then, once you paid attention, once you get curious, take a little step, you know, start to invest in yourself. It doesn't necessarily have to be money. It could be time, it could be in what you're doing. It could be in educating [00:31:00] yourself.
maybe you start meditating, maybe you start journaling. Maybe you sign up for a class. Maybe you start a side project or you find a coach or a mentor to help guide you. You're spirit, your soul is craving this. You have to feed it. You have to take little steps every day to get to where it is that it's trying to lead you to.
And then finally, just. Reframe the way you're looking at it. So instead of looking at it like, what if this doesn't work? What if this doesn't lead anywhere? Look at it like, what if this leads me to my dream life? what if this leads me to the whole purpose behind what the hell I'm here for?
What if it all works out? What if it all works out even better than I even expected?
One final quote from The Alchemist that I'm gonna leave you with and that is to realize one's destiny is a person's only obligation. that is your only job. Your only job here on Earth is to realize your destiny. What is your destiny? And if you're feeling any of these signs or if you're experiencing any of these [00:32:00] signs, you are on your path to your destiny and your life is gonna change.
So, which one of these signs resonated most with you? I want to hear, I'm so curious. I wanna hear everyone else's experience because I have my lived experience, but I don't have a lot of people that I can share it with. So please share it with me. If you're not following me already on YouTube or Instagram, you can find me at at starlit success and tag me, DM me, drop me a comment.
I would love to hear what you're going through.
And until we meet again, thank you for spending your time and energy with me today, and I hope to see you on the next episode.
